The problem of confidence crisis often become one
classic problem experienced by
some people.

Although it seems simple, but
if allowed to linger, a crisis of confidence
could be a boomerang itself. Wrong
only, the potential that resides within
we will be hampered.

Now let us review the extent to which
confidence can influence
affect a person's success.

When attending a seminar or a
such meetings, many of
we are more comfortable choosing a place
sitting in the back than in front.
The reason is simple times .. "afraid
Asked at the speaker ". lol

But when the seminar has begun, the
the rear seat is often so
not really look or sound
well what was discussed by
the speaker because of the
those who sat in the front!

Ever feel like that? :-)

Or when we are students,
whether we include shy
to raise their hands and give
the real answer we know of
the question being asked of our teachers? :-)

Now, let's find out what
that causes people like minder or
lack of confidence! Here are a few reasons why:

1. Often think that 'no-no'
about themselves!

"I wish I was tall, I want dong
become a famous model like Luna Maya!
... But unfortunately, I'm a short & black,
longish teeth again!! "

** Lol, what a pity ... xixixiixxi

never looked
an eye on us. All reply
we have is a gift of God which must be
worthwhile.



2. "Afraid of One" can make us
not forward.
If we are always afraid of the
do something, then surely we
will never be successful.

Let us not be afraid of! Because
real mistake is the step
start toward success.

The great figures of world
findings we now enjoy,
They used a lot to do
mistake. However, they continue and
constantly trying to improve
mistake to create a
great discoveries, such as lamps
incandescent, airplanes, Google :-)

And still many others!
Therefore, never be afraid
wrong!

3. If we associate with cowards,
automatically we will also be a coward

interactions can affect
our personalities. If we are in
environment that the majority do not have
high sense of confidence, then do not expect we
able confidence.

Be assured, to some extent, our confidence
strongly influenced by the environment
where we are. Therefore,
good-looking friends or pandailah
association that has trust
high.

We also must have heard
the term "If you want to be rich, bergaulah
with rich people ".

That is, it does not mean that we
not have the money to lean on
them and borrow money! :-) But the purpose
we are able to absorb 'the way
thinking 'those who can make
they become rich!

4. No need to influence opinion
others

We are often affected by
opinions of others. Unfortunately, no
all of this correct. Opinions or
input from the outside should be our
capacity. Our job is to * process it *,
as well as for self-evaluation.

If there are opinions that it makes
We are a retreat and not
successful, then we need to reject it,
without the need to be influenced by opinion
that.

In short, get rid of far-away feeling
inferior in us. We do not
need to fret with the existing deficiencies.
If there is a mistake, stay
correct the errors that we made, and
make mistakes as experiences.

The last but not least ...
Always enrich themselves with knowledge.
Because with a lot of science,
Automatic deficiencies in other ways we can
offset by other advantages that we have!

so many people who do not
aware 'sleeping giant' in
himself. Powerful and great potential of the
often ignored by the natural mind
itself, namely a feeling insecure!

So, believe it self! That all potential
We have tremendous * out * and
no longer stuck! :-)

"from: Ahira"